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Discover How To Improve Your Dogs Emotional SelfControl

Discover How To Improve Your Dogs Emotional SelfControl

Written by Ashlie Adams

As dog guardians, we all want our dogs to be emotionally balanced and responsive to us and their environment. One area that often gets overlooked is impulse control.

 

I mean, it might even get overlooked in your personal life too, ha. It sure does in mine from time to time.

 

Teaching your pup to regulate their impulses can lead to increased focus, more positive interactions with their environment, and a stronger bond between you and your dog. I want to share with you five engaging games that you can easily play with your dog to improve their self-control and help regulate their emotional state in a more positive and rewarding way.

Learn the Benefits of Emotional SelfControl

Before we get into the games, let's look at why this is so important for our four-legged friends to be able to regulate their impulses and emotional state.

 

Have you ever noticed that dogs with good impulse control seem to do better when handling various situations, from resisting the urge to chase after a squirrel to waiting patiently for their food?

 

Have you ever noticed how you feel in an environment where you can regulate your impulses, compared to one where you can't? 

 

This one skill can help prevent unwanted behaviors, reduce anxiety, and make your dog more responsive to cues.

 

By incorporating impulse control games into your dog's routine, you're not only providing mental stimulation (wahoo) but you are also setting your dog up for success in their daily life.

 

Play Games to Teach Emotional SelfControl

At Canine Brain Games, we believe that your dog learns through play and positive reinforcement. So, when working with dogs to regulate their emotions and

impulses, we want to keep it fun.

 

So, let's look at 5 impulse control games that we recommend adding into

your daily routine. 

Game 1: Wait For It

How to Play

  1. Hold a treat in your closed hand and show it to your dog.

  2. Say "Wait" and slowly open your hand, palm facing up with the treat visible.

  3. If your dog tries to grab the treat, quickly close your hand and say                       "Ah-ah" or "No."

  4. Repeat the process until your dog can wait 5 seconds.

  5. Once your dog waits patiently, give them your marker word, "yes" or                   click and provide them with a treat from your other hand.

 

Benefits

This game teaches your dog that waiting for food is fun and rewarding. This can even be particularly helpful during mealtimes or when you're preparing food in the kitchen. 

Tips/Variations

  • Gradually increase the duration and reward your dog along the way.

  • Try placing the treat on the floor instead of in your hand for an added challenge.

  • Use different types of treats to keep the game interesting and rewarding.

Game 2: Sit and Stay

How to Play

  1. Ask your dog to sit and stay in a specific spot.

  2. Walk a short distance away (start with just a few steps).

  3. If your dog stays put, return and reward them with praise and a treat.

  4. If they move, calmly guide them back to the original spot and try again.

  5. Gradually increase the distance and duration of the stay.

Benefits

This classic game improves your dog's ability to remain calm and focused, even when you're not right next to them. It's an excellent foundation for more advanced training and can be particularly useful in real-life situations like waiting at crosswalks or greeting guests at the door.

Tips/Variations

  • Add distractions like toys or other people to make the game more challenging.

  • Practice in different locations, both indoors and outdoors.

  • Try incorporating hand signals along with verbal commands for better communication.

Game 3: Leave It

How to Play

  1. Place a low-value treat on the floor and cover it with your hand.

  2. When your dog shows interest, say "Leave it."

  3. Wait for your dog to stop trying to get the treat and look at you.

  4. As soon as they look at you, mark with a "yes" or click and offer a higher-value treat from your other hand.

  5. Gradually make the game more challenging by uncovering the treat on the floor.

Benefits

The "Leave it" cue is something that is debated in the training community. I personally teach my dogs to "leave it" for many reasons. The key to this cue is to teach it in a fun and positive way. This cue can be crucial for your dog's safety, teaching them to ignore potentially harmful or inappropriate items. This game helps reinforce the cue in a fun, positive way, making it more likely that your dog will respond in real-life situations.

Tips/Variations

  • Use different objects instead of treats, such as toys or household items.

  • Practice the game while on walks, using real-world distractions.

  • Increase difficulty by placing the item closer to your dog or using more tempting treats.

Game 4: The Shell Game

How to Play

  1. Get three cups or containers and a small treat.

  2. Show your dog the treat and place it under one of the cups while they watch.

  3. Shuffle the cups around slowly. Watch to make sure your dog stays in their  place or in a sit. If they move, simply stop what you are doing and wait for them to make the choice to go back to their position. If they need a little help, give them your cue to have them return.

  4. Give your dog your release cue, letting them know they can search for the treat.

Benefits

This game not only tests your dog's impulse control but also engages their problem-solving skills and memory. It's an excellent way to provide mental stimulation and build focus, which can help reduce anxiety and boredom-related behaviors.

Tips/Variations

  • Start with just two cups and gradually increase to three or more as your dog improves.

  • Use different-sized containers or opaque ones to add difficulty.

  • You can incorporate a "wait" cue before your dog is able to search the cups.

The Shell Game

 

Game 5: Follow the Leader

How to Play

  1. Start walking around your home or yard.

  2. Encourage your dog to follow you closely without a leash.

  3. Make sudden changes in direction, speed, or movement (e.g., sit down, spin around).

  4. Reward your dog with treats or praise when they follow your movements.

  5. Gradually increase the complexity of your movements and the duration of the game.

Benefits

This game improves your dog's focus and ability to pay attention to you, even in the face of distractions. It also reinforces the bond between you and your dog, promoting better overall communication and responsiveness to cues.

Tips/Variations

  • Play the game in different environments with varying levels of distractions.

  • Incorporate obstacles for your dog to navigate around or over.

  • Add verbal cues or hand signals to direct your dog's movements.

 

Play Impulse Control Games For Dogs

Incorporating these five impulse control games into your dog's routine can lead to significant improvements in their behavior and overall well-being. Not only do these games provide mental stimulation and physical exercise, but they also strengthen the bond between you and your pup. Remember to keep the sessions short, fun, and positive, gradually increasing the difficulty as your dog improves. I recommend 10-15 minute bursts of fun lessons.

 

By consistently practicing these games, you'll likely notice your dog feeling more comfortable and even handling environmental stimuli more positively.

 

So why not give impulse control games for dogs a try? Your dog will thank you for the fun and engaging playtime, and you'll enjoy the benefits of a balanced and mentally stimulated companion.

 

Remember, every dog is unique, so be patient and adjust the games as needed to suit your dog's personality and skill level.

 

With time and practice, you'll both be masters of impulse control!

 

Looking for additional help? Check out the behavior consultation options where I use an enrichment lens to teach you and your dog how to live a happy and emotionally healthy life together.

 

Learn More About Behavior Consultations

 

 

Additional Resources:

 

For more information on working with impulses and your dog, check out these helpful resources:

  • American Kennel Club: Impulse Control Training for Dogs

  • Whole Dog Journal: Impulse Control Exercises for Dogs

  • ASPCA: Impulse Control for Dogs

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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